How do you do it?

How do you do poly/nonmonogamy? Comment your breakdown below!

The following outlines my “realms” of commitment, and I emphasize that there is no limit or quota on occupancy.

Primary: these are people whom I am seriously dating and vetting as life partners.

Secondary: we may be dating and offering emotional support to each other, but we probably wouldn’t make great life partners.

Tertiary: friends with benefits, regular hook-ups, and whatever other terms you can find for people with whom the relationship is more physical than emotional.

I’ve been parts of poly nebulas, I’ve been auxillary to a dating couple, I’ve been parts of Vees, W’s, and wagon wheels in plenty of forms. There’s no end to how non monogamy can be done because human creativity is limitless.