Welcome to Polyamory & Ethical NonMonogamy

Polyamory: "many loves." Ethical, honest, open, and concientious non-monogamy may take many forms. This page aims to educate allies and lifestylers alike.

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Abstinence and Closed Relationships

If a relationship is closed, in a way they are using abstinence as protection. Just remember, though: abstinence is only as safe as the...

Cheating: Sexual, Emotional...

A large body of cross-cultural research supports the notion that when it comes to cheating, men consider sexual transgressions more...

#3 CHEATING: Cheating in Polyamory

#3 CHEATING :( When I tell people I’m polyamorous, they always ask, “Do they know about each other?” and half the time follow it up with,...

How Do They Treat the Waiter?

A common piece of advice in the early dating phase is to pay attention to how your date treats the waiter. The assumption is that how...

#2 CHEATING: What Cheating Really Is

When I tell people I’m polyamorous, they always ask, “Do they know about each other?” and half the time follow it up with, “Well isn’t...

#1 CHEATING: Ethical Nonmonogamy

When I tell people I’m polyamorous, they always ask, “Do they know about each other?” and half the time follow it up with, “Well isn’t...

Polyamory =/= Polyfuckery

The underlying theme of my three-tier breakdown is that sex and love have nothing to do with one another. If they did, porn wouldn’t be a...

#0 CHEATING

When I tell people I’m polyamorous, they always ask, “Do they know about each other?” and half the time follow it up with, “Well isn’t...

Polyamory is not Dating Around

The assumption that poly is “not that serious” or “just keeping your options open,” is really harmful in a lot of ways. Amory means love,...

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Welcome to Polyamory & Ethical NonMonogamy

#6 Metamours: Jealousy

#5 Metamours: Talking it Out

#4 Metamours: Open vs Closed

Abstinence and Closed Relationships

Cheating: Sexual, Emotional...

#3 CHEATING: Cheating in Polyamory

How Do They Treat the Waiter?

#2 CHEATING: What Cheating Really Is

#1 CHEATING: Ethical Nonmonogamy

Polyamory =/= Polyfuckery

#0 CHEATING

Polyamory is not Dating Around

Contact

Welcome to Polyamory & Ethical NonMonogamy

#6 Metamours: Jealousy

#5 Metamours: Talking it Out

#4 Metamours: Open vs Closed

Abstinence and Closed Relationships

Cheating: Sexual, Emotional...

#3 CHEATING: Cheating in Polyamory

How Do They Treat the Waiter?

#2 CHEATING: What Cheating Really Is

#1 CHEATING: *Ethical* Nonmonogamy

Polyamory =/= Polyfuckery

#0 CHEATING

Polyamory is not Dating Around

Contact

#1 CHEATING: Ethical Nonmonogamy