#1 How to Come Out as Poly

Coming Out stories seem to be a right of passage, or an entrance ticket, into many queer social groups. Not all Coming Out has to be done as an extensive drama, though! But, sometimes, it can’t be avoided. Whether coming out to family, friends, strangers, coworkers, or the internet community, always consider your options and strategies. Have Somewhere to Go I don’t care what you’re Coming Out about: from telling your parents you put a dent in their car to admitting responsibility for that multi-million fuck-up at work (don’t ever do this) to demonstrating you’re anything other than the model 1950’s citizen your acquaintances take for granted… have somewhere to go if shit goes sideways. If you’re coming out to someone who lives with or near you - have a friend or relative’s house you can crash at should you need to. If you’re coming out at work - make sure your resume is up to date and you’ve already digitally blocked that one coworker who might decide to slander you on professional social media like LinkedIn. If you’re coming out to a community or activity-based group - make your peace with the potential of being shunned or outright thrown out. If you’re coming out to your child’s school, any medical professionals, or similar services - do your research to make a transition to a new service professional as seamless as possible. No one likes to contemplate the worst happening, but with careful preparation, the worst won’t seem so bad if it does come to pass.